February 2017
Within the last two months I have accepted and agreed to engaging in 12 months temporary slave contracts with two of my regular subs – now my slaves. It is a commitment we have worked towards and it has come as a natural next step in our endeavours.
Both CPHslaveboi and ROPEboi are close to me in different ways, and both of them have proven their longing for a dynamic and connection that is more than grounded in the regular meetings we have had so far. It was a natural thing to agree to terms in a limited slave contract which would allow us in different ways to focus on our dynamic. Also explore a deeper connection grounded in an agreement allowing us to focus on a longer perspective.
To me it is an important step, not only because it ensures me of their intentions (not that I was doubting them) but it also allows me to make goals that are a bit further out in the future than I would if they were ‘just’ regular subs. It ensures that we have time together which is pre-agreed on and there will be a continuum in our meetings which is otherwise not necessarily given.
More importantly it gives me a connection to them which I feel will be perceived and experienced differently both by them and by me, because we have pre-set parameters for our meetings and interaction. There are set guidelines which are now more crystalized and created to give a basis and security both ways. Naturally you can argue this can be obtained otherwise, and I agree. But working on a contract together, setting up goals, limitations and rights – now this does have another impact once it has been put into words, written down and finally made into a final contract. Mutually signed, acknowledged and agreed on.
This leaves us to where we are now. Two contracts have been signed, two different types of slave endeavours have started. Different goals, different needs and different approaches. But one common thing – a platform of temporary Ownership to explore our kinky dynamic from. I look forward to where it will lead and what it will allow us to gain in terms of experience in the coming year.
ROPEboi
My long-term goals with ROPEboi are threefold.
First of all, build up this slave’s pain threshold and explore his submissive side when he is stressed from experiencing pain. I want to see to it, that he can get to a point where he can let go and embrace the pain in the moment while keeping his focus on a goal.
Second of all, I want to build a connection to ROPEboi, which will allow him to let go and fully trust me in moments of deep humiliation. Setting aside pride and gaining encouragement from and being proud to follow orders even if they are humiliating and degrading. In this way have him grow from our connection.
The third goal is to take Ownership from the mindset of ‘playing’ to a thought of life. I find it is time he fully embraces his longing. Explore the idea and thought of Ownership and slavery for more than just a notion and play. Bridge it to tasks in the everyday and pinpoint mindsets of Ownership in certain moments where it doesn’t interfere with his work nor private life with his partner.
CPHslaveboi
My long term goals with CPHslaveboi are on two levels: experience and mindset.
When it comes to experiences, my aim for CPHslaveboi is to gain more experience in certain areas such as being used sexually and objectified as my slave. I want him to get to a point where he enjoys certain ways of being used sexually as a slave. I want him to experience more play with other guys but also one-on-one with me.
As for mindset, there are a couple of areas which are important to me to engage with CPHslaveboi. First, I want him to get to a point where he can put aside other thoughts while fulfilling a task, regardless of whether he has cum or not. Where the thoughts from outside isn’t interfering with his commitment in the dynamic and the period he serves as a slave. This way hopefully being able to fully enjoy and let go in the moment. Secondly, I want to explore further his longing for humiliation, both public and private. Creating a platform for us to allow ourselves to explore even darker urges and make him relax and comfortable in doing this with me, even if it is pushing his limits.
December 2017 – update
It has now been 12 months where I have had CPHslaveboi on a contract. We have gone into an extended period until we either agree to a new contract with new terms or a termination of the existing terms and contract.
It has been a good learning curve for both of us, but some changes in the contract are needed, to make it easier to keep to it and not for it to add stress onto the dynamic.
ROPEboi and I are similarly now in a contract renewal phase, the dynamic has evolved and grown far faster than I would have expected. The blog followers will have noticed this in many of our entries. It will be interesting what a renewal of the contract can bring.
In the spring BERslave signed a 12 months contract with me, and we aimed at meeting bimonthly for a weekend, which we have been able to do despite the distance. It will naturally come to an end now in the spring again. Due to altered working conditions on his part, this contract is unlikely to be renewed.
