Every now and then, I take a photo in which I feel the texture of the interaction is present in the image. The moment catches how I remember the flow in the shibari session.
Those are usually the photos I like and value the most. It is hard to work on these photos as they bring back strong emotions, and I realise how much I crave the connection with the excellent kinbaku ropees.
@coyote_london and I have only known each other relatively briefly in bondage years, yet I take myself thinking of him being a regular play partner from when I lived in London. However, this isn’t the case – we just got a good bondage connection after I had moved back to Copenhagen.
He has grown tremendously in this short time, and now (compared to when we first met), he shines when in the ropes; that is, he allows himself to shine—and it comes across. He is one of my regulars who gives me tremendous feedback. He is amongst a small handful of fantastic ropees I enjoy having as friends and get to tie up regularly.
Usually, with these ropees, taking the photo is effortless, as they shine and show themselves to me, the camera and the ropes.
It is hard to pinpoint what makes me feel; photos of them reflect my feeling of flow and the connective fabric created in kinbaku experienced together.
I think it comes down to a very close, unfiltered connection we share in the sessions, in my mind it translates onto the photos. There is no need for a facade, no need to think of anything but enjoying the emotions in the ropes as well as the connectedness that bondage can bring.
