Mutual respect and consensual play

My approach to BDSM is based on mutual respect, consensual play and honesty.

I respect the limits of my slaves and subs and it is a core principle of mine – that play and sexual interaction should be based on consensual play both when it comes to limits, to respect and to honesty.

SM

In my opinion, sexual encounters with SM being a part of the play have to have an outline of limits and mutually agreed on safe words or no-goes, especially amongst ‘new’ partners. Partners should have talked about expectations, experience, limits and how to communicate during the play. It is imperative that the top respects limits, is observant to signals and gives a safe place for the sub to experience play and even free fall without being anxious about whether or not he can let go.

Consensual play means respecting the limits of the sub, and if allowed pushing them slightly further without causing any harm (which hasn’t been agreed on prior to the session) or psychological distress . It is a matter of respecting the partner in the session and in the play, especially when pushing limits and pain.

Aftercare is as important part of the session as the play itself. Ensuring that the sub gets through his experience with plenty of support, care and hugs. Follow up is especially important if the sub gets into an adrenaline and endorphin high – not everyone lands equally after having had an intense physical and often mental experience. As a Master and top, in my view it is the core to your role in that moment to take them through the aftercare and see them land safely..

Barebacking:

We are adults well aware of STD’s spread and how to limit it. With PrEP and modern anti-retroviral medication I understand that safe sex in respect to HIV has progressed significantly over the past 10 years. Hence, I respect the right to the practice of barebacking between guys – provided both parties are honest about their status, clear regarding their intentions and have an agreement on their approach to this practice. I see no reason to position myself in respect to their choices and respect the choice of the individual. This is why I don’t want nor need to side with safe sex in respect to HIV. However, I still point out that safer sex has an important preventive effect in respect to a lot of other STD’s which we are still in risk of. Regular testing and monitoring for symptoms should be a priority along with communication with partners.

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The topics, photos and sessions depicted and described on this blog are to be seen as BDSM art – not guidelines nor a knowledge-base for BDSM. The sessions shouldn’t be replicated, as you – amongst other – need to have extended training in as well as extended knowledge of :

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